To stay in a relationship full of lies, misunderstandings, and cheating times, is definitely one of the hardest things a person could do. It takes a lot of courage to be able to stay and hold onto this kind of commitment. It takes some time for the instances to be absorbed. And most especially, it takes some real strength to get through it. Not all girls nor boys are gifted with enough courage, and if you happen to find one strong partner, please take care of him or her.
And since I’m a girl, let’s pertain to girls.
When she’s strong enough to hold on, she will do everything to keep you. Do whatever you want, she will still stay with you. Hurt her, scold her, torture her, she will still be there to forgive you. Make her feel neglected, set her aside, cheat on her, she will still understand you. Occupy her mind, replace her, break her heart, and she will still choose not to leave you. She’s able to do that because she is strong. She is strong, because she loves you.
But don’t wait until she becomes stronger than how she is now. Don’t wait until she learns how to ignore your sorry. Don’t wait until she learns how to stop understanding you. Don’t wait until she learns how to finally set you free and let you go.
Yes she’s strong, but time will come, and she might change her mind. She might realize that you’re just taking her for granted. She might realize that you’re wasting her time. She might realize that you’re not worth it.
Don’t wait until it happens. Treasure her, keep her, love her. She’s precious. Don’t let her go. And don’t let her strength keep herself away from you. Be a man. Be a real man.